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I threw away all my pornography a long time ago, but how do you clear your head of all the images stamped into it? I go to confession and Mass and I pray regularly, but I feel like they are branded in there.

Here is one strategy for handling it: Every time one of those impure images pops into your mind, take that as an occasion to pray for that woman's conversion. Pray specifically for her. That way, instead of contributing to her fall, you could impact her salvation. This makes up for the times you have lusted after her but will accomplish even more. If you persevere in this practice, I would imagine that the thoughts subside considerably.

Other than this, continue with your prayer life and remain pure in your day-to-day relationships. Also, deepen your devotion to Mary. We need to have our image of womanhood redeemed, and praying a daily rosary is an ideal way to begin this reconstruction. The remedy for pornography is to understand the dignity of womanhood and the truth about your call to love. Persevere in this practice, and your lust will be transformed into love.

In the meantime, stay strong. Resisting these temptations will foster in you the virtues that make for great dads and husbands.