How to Stay Pure
Purity In Daily Life
- How can I promote the message of chastity at my school?
- My friends say I should lose my virginity before college, and get it over with. What should I tell them?
- How do I stay strong when I go off to college in the fall?
- Sometimes I wonder if I'm sinning because women seem so much more attractive to me than God. Is that bad?
- Isn't it hard to say "no" all the time?
- How do you control sex drives? They can be a real pain sometimes—for girls as well as guys!
- How should I respond when people in my high school say, "Everyone is doing it?"
- Isn't being chaste the same thing as being a prude?
- I know we shouldn't lust, but don't you think a girl's feelings would be hurt if you deliberately looked the other way?
- Why does God give us such powerful hormones now, if we aren't supposed to get married for ten more years?
- Do chaste people just have lower sex drives?
- What if I save sex for marriage, and my wife doesn't? Shouldn't I just be sexually active so that we'll be on the same page?
Purity In Relationships
- What can my girlfriend and I do on dates so that we don’t end up going too far?
- How do you stay pure with all the pressures? And how do you tell your girlfriend that you want to be pure?
- My girlfriend and I want to be pure, but we often mess up and go too far. It keeps happening. Any suggestions?
- Sometimes when I'm with a girl, I know we should cool off, but it seems impossible. Any tips?
- If you're on a date and things are going too far, how do you stop suddenly and tell him "no"?
- Sometimes my boyfriend pressures me to do stuff that makes me uncomfortable. I don't want to lose him, so what should I do?
- How do you know if a guy loves you or wants to use you?
- My boyfriend and I are trying to be pure, and we even pray together. Is it wrong for us to discuss our temptations?
- When I try to slow things down with my boyfriend, he makes me feel guilty. How do I get him to respect me?
- My girlfriend sometimes gets upset because I look at other girls. What should I do?