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Here are three guidelines already in your heart for knowing how much is too much:
These may seem like extreme guidelines, but I think they make sense for three reasons:
1. Girls often do not realize that guys are wired very differently when it comes to sexuality. A girl might have a passionate kiss, and be thinking about her warm fuzzy feelings or even about volleyball practice. She has no problem in her mind expecting that it will be able to stop there. Meanwhile, the guy's body works at a much faster pace, and his sexual desires are being ignited. In other words, although they're only on first base, his mind may be running past second or third. Perhaps the couple will stop, but gradually the old boundaries will be pushed back because they begin to experience the intoxicating bonding power that God has in store for them in marriage. All too often, good spiritual relationships get demolished because the couple thought that they could safely sit on the fence of purity. Therefore, allow purity to become your superglue.
2. If you do not end up marrying him, you will never regret telling your future husband how pure you were with an ex boyfriend.
3. If you do end up marrying him, then you'll have all the more excitement to share within marriage. In the meantime, you'll spend more time learning how to express non-physical forms of intimacy that will deepen your love.
Take this to prayer if you truly wish to know the will of God as it relates to purity, I know he will show you. We just have to sit still long enough to listen.